How to feel more confident about my thighs?

I'm not over weight by any means and my thighs aren't huge, but they look out of proportion to my body and it bothers me. There are these little curves of flab that bulge from the inner sides of my thighs and they piss me off! I'm petite, usually around 100 pounds (I can go up and down a few pounds.) and around 5'0. I work out daily, lunges, walks, mountaineer steps. I've worked so hard to sculpt the rest of my body and they feel out of place and make me feel ugly. To make it worse, I have ugly spider veins and a huge scar on one of my thighs. I don't cross my legs or anything they are just there. They jiggle and they bother me. Please help me feel more comfortable with my thighs, I'm embarrassed of my thighs and it's holding me off from talking to guys.